
PARENTAL ALIENATION AND ENMESHMENT ISSUES IN CHILD CUSTODY CASES
By Daniel J. Rybicki, Psy.D., DAPBS
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(Document last updated 08/19/01)
Excerpt from Dr. Rybicki's forthcoming book on Expert Witness Testimony and Forensic Psychology.
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This model and the model offered by Kelly and Johnston (2001) both rest on extensive clinical experience and case studies, just as does the PAS model proposed by Gardner. What is different is that these new reformulations move from a simplistic medical model approach which labels a diagnosable syndrome on the basis of a set of observed symptoms to a more rich and clinically useful family systems and ecological approach that places issues of alienation within the context of larger interpersonal dynamics, life experiences, and developmental processes. Both approaches will require more empirical and scientific study, but one feature that favors these reformulation models is their reliance on a body of empirical data from family systems research, and their statement of multiple clinical pathways by which alienation and related problems may arise. These components are more likely to meet Frye and Daubert standards for admissibility, and many of these parts rest on a body of research that is already in the literature (e.g., Johnston, 1993; Johnston and Campbell, 1988).
Thus features outlined in the more sophisticated model of alienation offered by Kelly and Johnston (2001) raise additional family systems concerns, and point to types of intervention which have a sound theoretical footing within the field. They direct the clinician to consider several commonly understood family dynamics which have been observed in a number of clinical setting. For instance, they support the recommendation of studying the family process of enmeshment. Just as alienation and estrangement may be concerns which help shape the custody evaluation, it may be critical for the evaluator to carefully assess the level and degree of any enmeshment or boundary disturbance that are present in a post-divorce family system. While the literature does not often incorporate discussion of this topic into descriptions of parental alienation, it would appear that enmeshment and overidentification of the child or children with one parent may significantly contribute to the level and intensity of observed alienation processes.
The term enmeshment has been widely used in the family therapy literature since it was popularized by the work of Salvador Minuchin (1978). Describing psychosomatic families, Minuchin and his colleagues outlined the impact of four disruptive family dynamics: enmeshment, overprotectiveness, rigidity, and lack of conflict resolution methods. The offspring in these families included anorexic girls who were so caught up in the family pathology that they were unable to differentiate themselves and were locked into an illness that reflected the family disorder. They were trapped in rigid roles with their other family members and they were treated in such an overprotective manner so as to make a virtual moat around the family system which blocked out the outside world. Attempts to penetrate these protective walls were rebuffed, leaving no opportunity for corrective feedback, new learnings, or breaking the suffocating mold that held the members captive.
"Enmeshment refers to an extreme form of proximity and intensity in family interactions...In a highly enmeshed, overinvolved family, changes within one family member or in the relationship between two family members reverberate throughout the system...On an individual level, interpersonal differentiation in an enmeshed system is poor...in enmeshed families the individual gets lost in the system. The boundaries that define individual autonomy are so weak that functioning in individually differentiated ways is radically handicapped (Minuchin, et al, 1978, p.30)."
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Minuchin described the lack of clear ego boundaries between family members which produced a form of fusion, a condition that interfered with a clear sense of self as apart from the family while still being a part of the family. Taken with the family failure to have suitable means for conflict resolution, Minuchin traced how the family system contributed to the production of psychopathology in the members and how it was unable to move forward to more healthy and adaptive roles. From this seminal work, a large body of literature has emerged which has been most influential in the family therapy world. As with parental alienation described above, varying levels and degrees of enmeshment may occur, ranging from mild and isolated elements of enmeshment to more pathological and pervasive features. In divorcing families, the impact of enmeshment can become more pronounced as the normal balancing influence of the other parent is gradually diminished. Much like parental alienation, the phenomenon of enmeshment may be found in varying degrees of intensity, with corresponding degrees of negative impact on child development.
A number of recent publications have advanced the concept of enmeshment and improved our methods of assessment and treatment for problems of family enmeshment (e.g., Blair, 1996; Ellis, 1994; Perosa & Perosa, 1993; Rogers, 1983; and Verheij, 1982). One may conceptualize this problem as a form of being too close, where identity fusion between parent and child is merged and it is difficult to tell where one begins and the other leaves off. In this unhealthy dynamic, the child is unable to establish a clear identity apart from the parent, such that actions of the child so significantly impact the apparent well-being of the parent that the child is held captive to a role reversal and caretaker role, subsuming their own identity and needs to those of the parent. Problems of this sort contribute to a myriad of developmental disturbances in the children of such families (Anderson & Coyne, 1991; Bebbington & Delemos, 1996; Cummings, 1994; Fullinwider & Jacobvitz, 1993; Koontz, 1983; Perosa & Perosa, 1993; Schupak-Neuberg & Nemeroff, 1993; Shean & Lease, 1991; Waring and Patton, 1984). This may include a number of forms of psychopathology (e.g., eating disorders, drug abuse) and psychosomatic or psychophysiological disorders (e.g., chronic pain, headaches, gastrointestinal disorders). Research has demonstrated that the model originally developed by Minuchin holds true in terms of an established relationship between enmeshment and these various problems. The phenomenon can be studied through observation of interactions and even more recently through self-report measures of family functioning.
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